Situation -
Negative Thought about Situation
Positive Thought about substance/habit
Craving
Urge
Preparation
Action
Situation -
Negative Thought about Situation
Positive Thought about substance/habit
Craving
Urge
Preparation
Action
Often challenging our thoughts is not enough. We have to change how you act and respond to situations as well. That is, people have to change the way they behave. There are ways to help to change behavior.
Sometimes it is difficult to be aware of what our behaviors are and how they change when our mood changes. This exercise helps people identify what they do when they feel positively (high) and negatively (low):
So far we have been looking at various tools to challenging negative thinking. However, people also act or respond negatively which are not helpful behaviors. CBT claims that even without challenging thoughts and just by challenging or changing how we behave can change our mood.
Positive Highs/ Negative Lows. How to do it:
(See worksheet)
1. Moods
List two examples of when you last felt high and low.
Describe how you react when you feel this way, how you respond and how you are.
Write down what you were thinking at these times
Arguing against our negative thoughts is usually not enough by itself to convince us that they are incorrect. We will need to build up a body of experience which contradicts them. The best way to do this is to act on our rational beliefs, that is, our new realistic and more helpful beliefs, and discover whether they are true or not - whether we can believe in them or not. The best way to test out a new belief is by setting up an experiment. The following can help people to do that:
How to do it?
Our negative thoughts come from far deeper and from earlier life experiences. CBT is about challenging our daily negative thoughts and mainly about our ‘here and now’. However, there are often deeper assumptions and core beliefs which underlie the surface every day negative thoughts.
Underlying Assumptions are the rules we hold, usually recognized if we use
‘I should’ statements, or
‘If’……. ‘Then’
Core Beliefs are the absolute statements we make about ourselves. These come from very deep down, from experiences in the past and from the negative (or positive ) messages we received from others.
E.g.,
‘I am a failure’
‘I am loved’
‘I am valued’
‘I am accepted’